Back in November of 2019, shortly before the world shut down, a little animated Christmas movie dropped on Netflix without a ton of fanfare. This quiet gem of a movie … Continue reading “Klaus”: The Best Christmas Movie about Grief
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God, the Grieving Parent
Content Advisory: This post talks extensively about the deaths of children. To skip straight to the theological argument at the end, click here. “No one can sit at the bedside … Continue reading God, the Grieving Parent
Grief for Celebrities
A “parasocial relationship” occurs when one party develops significant emotional responses to another without the other party’s awareness, and modern media has played a major role in enabling this phenomenon. … Continue reading Grief for Celebrities
The Storms We Know
A funny thing happens in Jacksonville when there’s a hurricane in the forecast: everyone throws parties. When the power goes out, the grills come out. Sure, stores sell out of … Continue reading The Storms We Know
Don’t Be Strong
I’ve lost track of the number of times I’ve heard it: some terrible thing happens, and the person I’m talking with braces themselves with the words “I’ve got to be … Continue reading Don’t Be Strong
Why We Use Cliches
“God won’t give you more than you can handle.” “Everything happens for a reason.” “She’s in a better place.” Sayings like these seldom bring comfort to people in crisis situations. … Continue reading Why We Use Cliches
“God Needed Another Angel in Heaven” Is the Worst Thing You Can Say: a Rant
A “crisis” is any situation, expected or otherwise, which disrupts the normal flow of life and family. Whether a death, divorce, job loss, move, or mental health emergency, everyone eventually … Continue reading “God Needed Another Angel in Heaven” Is the Worst Thing You Can Say: a Rant
“Someday, you’ll look back on this and laugh.”
There’s an expression I always use when presiding over a wedding, and oddly enough, it’s become helpful in caregiving as well.
Remember Me.
I have a lot of memories tied to communion, but since a fateful conversation in 2015, there’s one person who always comes to mind.
“Don’t Feel Sad!” (or whatever other perfectly reasonable emotion you’re feeling)
Rather than telling people what not to feel, maybe we can help them express those feelings in healthier ways.